Train etiquette

One dictionary defines etiquette as “rules governing socially acceptable behavior.” My parents taught me these socially acceptable rules of dining when I was young (table etiquette). I learned the courtesies of the road at age 16 (driving etiquette). While living in Denver I learned how to navigate the sidewalks, bike paths and mountain trails with class (biking and hiking etiquette). Now in Chicago, I am learning the respect of public transportation (train & bus etiquette).

One habit I find particularly entertaining is the adamancy of some individuals to be the first to step on the train, regardless of how many are already on board or waiting. A few days ago, I took the train home around 7:30pm – a time when the CTA can almost always guarantee seats for everyone. As I stood reading my book near the “do not cross line” on the platform, I noticed a lady slowly inching her way in front of me – stepping completely on the “do not cross line”. I took a quick look around to make sure I wasn’t mistaken then confirmed, yes, this middle-aged woman was budging me in a near-empty train station in an effort to get on a near-empty train.

Perhaps the worst of all is the people who do not step aside when others are trying to exit the train. Even the best of us get distracted and forget to move once in a while, but this certainly should not be a habit. On countless occasions, I have witnessed people standing in the middle of the door watching 10-15 people at a time frantically move to the other exit, hoping the doors don’t close before they make their way out.

I’m not sure if those poorly mannered train riders just haven’t caught on yet, or if their awareness is just lower than others. Perhaps they just don’t care. Whatever the reason, my advice is to pay attention to your surroundings. Be socially acceptable on the trains.